Speeches
The Story I Finally Chose
Growing up with that thought in the back of your mind, success meant proving others wrong—doing more, achieving more, meeting expectations. Then burnout came. You learned trying to be everything for everyone has a cost. This is the turning point: choosing yourself, setting boundaries, knowing “no” isn’t selfish. Life changes when you stop letting others define you. The real shift is deciding who you are for yourself.
She recounts loss, infertility, and postpartum depression. Adopted into a white family, Calissa longed for a biological bond with her children. With raw honesty she tells of losing twin boys and the challenges of motherhood. Through resilience, self-acceptance, and seeking help, she shows that bravery is embracing your path and accepting that healing isn’t solitary.
I Am Not Okay…
Little Black Girl
She shares her personal journey of resilience, self-discovery, and self-worth. Adopted into a family of a different race, Calissa faced challenges with identity, trauma, and belonging. From childhood struggles to embracing her path, her story shows courage and renewal. She stresses owning your story, beating life’s hardest battles, and finding strength in self-acceptance. This is a Signature Legacy Video from Speaker Slam’s Defining Moment Series—using music, cinematic visuals, and raw storytelling to honor resilience, purpose, and the legacy of a true champion.
“Reconnect, protect & honour your why.”
